When it comes to helping your little one master the art of sleeping through the night, you’ve got a toolkit of approaches. One popular technique is the Ferber method, also known as cry it out (CIO). Essentially, you put your baby down to sleep and allow them to self-soothe through any cries or fusses that pop up. You check in at intervals of 5-10 minutes, assuring their safety but refraining from feeding or picking them up. This approach helps your child develop healthy sleep patterns without always needing your comforting presence.
Now, shifting gears to daytime naps. Sleep training isn’t just for the night – it applies to those precious daytime siestas too. Consistency is key here. Employ the cry it out method for both naps and bedtime during the same training stretch to keep things on a steady track. When you stick to this routine, you’re giving your baby the tools to fall asleep faster and enjoy longer stretches of rest.
Sure thing! Let’s dive into a step-by-step guide for using the CIO method during naps. We’re here to support you in creating a safe and effective approach that’ll help your precious one embrace a soothing nap routine. Let’s get started!
Does Cry It Out Work for Naps?
Ferber’s cry it out method not only works for bedtime but also for nap time as well. This method of sleep training can be used for naps as long as its use is consistent, and you keep your baby on a set sleeping schedule.
If your baby naps too much during the day, he or she will wake up frequently at night or try to fight to go to sleep at bedtime. The long-term goal of sleep training is to help your child fall asleep without you, as gently as possible and with little to no crying. The self-soothing skills your baby learns while sleep training will be used for both bedtime and naptime sleep. And let’s be honest, more sleep is good for everyone.
How Long to Let Baby Cry It Out for Naps?
To help your baby fall asleep on his own, put him in bed for naps about 15 minutes before you want him to fall asleep and then leave the room. This time frame usually gives babies enough time to become bored and tired. As you first start sleeping training your child, the moment you put them down is when they will cry the most. This crying should diminish with further sleep training. However, your baby will learn the skill of self-soothing to fall asleep. If your baby does not fall asleep in 15 minutes, consider extending the time to an hour.
Since naps don’t typically involve sleeping for an extended period, it’s best not to enter the room during this hour nap session. If your baby sees you while down for a nap, this may make him excited and less likely to go to sleep. You can check on him from a distance, making sure he does not see you at any time.
After an hour and a half, if your baby still has not gone to sleep, retrieve him from his crib and return to the daily routine. Feed him, hold him if needed, and wait 45 minutes to try to put him down again using the steps above. Do not let him fall asleep outside of his crib. If he shows signs of tiredness, return him to his bed and allow him to self-soothe to fall asleep.
Advantages and Disadvantages of The Cry It Out Method for Naps
Using the Ferber method for naps may not be suitable for every parenting style. Hearing a baby cry for an extended time is not something all parents can handle.
As with any sleep training method, there are always pros and cons to each style. One of the cons of the CIO method is listening to your baby cry and fighting the urge to help and comfort them. Some critics of the method claim that allowing your baby to cry for too long may affect your baby’s relationship with you. After you start sleep training using cry it out, you may begin to notice that your baby sometimes no longer relies on you for comfort, even when they are happy. The baby sees that you are not there to comfort them when they are fussy and crying, so they may think that you won’t be there to comfort them when they are happy.
An advantage of the CIO method can be that it helps your baby learn to self-soothe to fall asleep faster on his own. Your baby will learn to comfort themselves without you near, which will make bedtime an easier time for both parents and baby. Another advantage of the CIO method is your baby will be able to put himself back to sleep should he wake up in the middle of the night. Just like adults, babies often wake up at night. But instead of crying for you, the skills learned from the cry it out method will enable your baby to soothe himself back to sleep, enabling more restful sleep for everyone.
Things to Keep In Mind When Using The Ferber Method of Cry It Out
Using schedules for sleep training is key to helping your baby fall asleep on his own. Be sure to stick to the same daily bedtime, naptime, and wake-up schedule, so you don’t confuse your baby. Over time, your baby’s internal clock will begin to associate certain times with sleeping, which will help him fall asleep easier.
Also, keep in mind that it’s easier to sleep train an infant than an older toddler. Habits develop over time, and these habits are harder to break when a child is older. Sleep training your infant early will help instill proper sleep habits for later years. You can do this by always putting your baby in a bed or crib to sleep when they are drowsy. In doing this, they will associate their bed with sleep instead of your arms or your bed.
The Dos of Cry It Out for Naps
- Be sure to check in on your baby in 5-10 minute intervals. You want your baby to learn to help himself go to sleep, but you also want to make sure your baby is safe as well.
- Keep a schedule when sleep training your baby. Routine and schedules are key to your baby’s internal clock recognizing when it’s time to be asleep and when it’s time to be awake. Always put your baby in the crib or his bed to sleep, so he begins to recognize that sleeping takes place in bed and nowhere else.
- Important, allow yourself to cry if you need it. Listening to a baby cry for comfort can sometimes be heartbreaking and cause parents to fail. Stay the course and eventually you will have a happy baby that falls asleep on his own without your help.
The Don’ts of CIO Method for Naps
- When allowing your baby to cry it out, don’t pick them up out of bed, feed them or turn on the light. If you feel the need to reassure your baby you are near, you can softly speak to them from the doorway where they cannot see you. After comforting the baby with your voice, leave the room again and return to check on them 5-10 minutes later.
- When sleep training, don’t be inconsistent. You will need to respond the same way every time your child goes down to sleep, whether for a nap or bedtime. If one night you give in to his cries and hold him while he falls asleep, you will undo the progress you have made sleep training your child. Your child will learn that if he cries and fusses enough, he will end up being comforted by you and won’t learn to self-soothe himself.
While the CIO method can be a helpful tool in encouraging a baby to sleep independently, parents must stay firm in their approach and avoid inconsistencies in their actions or reactions to their baby’s behavior. Only then can parents expect to see the desired results in their baby’s sleeping patterns.
Ultimately, the decision to use cry it out or any other sleep training method is up to each individual family. Some parents may prefer a more hands-on approach, while others may find the cry it out method to be the best fit for their needs. Whatever method parents choose, it’s important to remember that there is no one-size-fits-all solution when it comes to parenting. Keep trying until you find the best method for you and your baby.
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