Co-sleeping with Your Baby and Co-sleeping Cribs

As a new mother I made the decision to share my room and bed with my baby. This was a positive and rewarding experience. I recommend co-sleeping and using a co-sleeping crib.

I want to discuss co-sleeping. Maybe you have a lot of questions about co-sleeping. I’m going to answer some common questions. I think people are so curious about co-sleeping because it’s something we don’t talk about enough. Because we heard that it’s very dangerous and that people who sleep with their children are reckless. I think many of the fears that surround them are fabricated.

I think we instinctively know this in our hearts and in our heads: Our babies need to be close to us. But the western world we live in is big in terms of privacy and separate spaces for everyone and don’t get too close, don’t touch too much, don’t wait too long. And I think we’ve built a wall over intimacy and I’m not talking about sexual intimacy. I’m talking about intimacy with other people who are intimate with our children and with our families. And I think co-sleeping is such a beautiful way to connect with your children even in the middle of the night to help create a family bond.

Why did I do co-sleeping?

So your first question is, why did you do it? It started with my first child. I couldn’t bear to have him a few inches from myself in his crib. It felt like he is so far away from me. I needed him by my side to know I was sure he was breathing. I still remember all those new mom fears. I just wanted to have him curled up on my arm.

I think in general, sleeping together is an exceptional way to promote mother-baby bonding. I think it’s great for breastfeeders because you don’t have to wait until you get out of bed, you can just turn around and feed your baby.

That’s one of the best things of all. I didn’t suffer from sleep deprivation and my kids have always slept very well next to me and I can also. Kind of breastfeeding him in my dream. So, apart from some sickness, I slept more this way, and sleeping when you have kids is gold. You need to sleep. So those are just some of the general reasons we fall asleep.

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I get used to sleeping while he sleeps comfortably. During his first year, I have my child with me, he falls asleep in my arms downstairs, I carried him and went to bed. I usually go to bed early. Usually, I only go to bed with the baby and the program works that way. We’re both on the same sleep schedule, either to go to bed at seven o’clock sharp. I like to sleep and I know that if I go to bed early, I can get up early and start my day with a little peace and quiet and my coffee and all that, and that works for me.

Do you think it’s better to let your babies sleep on the basis that it doesn’t ruin the routine or when they’re ready, especially during the first few years? For me, it is very important to create a sense of security and attachment in our family for our children. I care more about the relationship than about children routine and roles.

But guess what: Your baby, your rules. No one knows your baby better than you. People don’t like it. You know what’s best for your baby. Don’t let someone else’s fears change the way you want to instinctively raise your child.

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Well, if you’ve already decided that you’re going to share the room and bed with your little one, you need an environment that will be healthy and comfortable for everyone. The idea of co-sleeping is not enough.

Changes can be very simple, such as moving the crib from the nursery to the parent’s room. Some cribs may be easier to accommodate than others. In my case, we buy one of those co-sleeping cribs or bedside bassinets. Sure, there are several options available at the moment, bassinets of well-known brands (Halo or Fisher-Price have beautiful co-sleeper cribs). They are much more comfortable for the baby’s nighttime sleep than a playpen.

It really helped me a lot. It calmed my fears as a newborn mother and the experience of being so close those first few months was a gift of life.

Kelly Bartlett
Author: Kelly Bartlett

Kelly is a mom of 3 and has a degree in Psychology. She has been a parenting content writer for years. When she's not managing projects at Lullabybot, she loves to get outdoors with her kids and her dog Bandit, and baking desserts on weekends.

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